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GUAM Pacific Daily News Joelle Casteix October 1, 2016 Survivors of sexual abuse on Guam are in a very powerful position. The new law protecting sex abuse victims is a watershed moment.
Finally, survivors will be able to use the civil courts to seek accountability, justice and healing. The public will finally learn the true scope and scale of the cover-up.
But before any of that can happen, victims need to come forward.
As a survivor who used a similar California law for justice, I know firsthand how terrifying the decision can be.
Recent conversations with Millennials and 30-somethings have made me feel even better about my age and lucky to have spent my Millennial dating years pre-internet, well before the current awfulness of online 'hooking-up'.
One fascinating aspect of my work as a couples/ family therapist is that it gives me an intimate view into the current cultural dynamics of couples.
As an advocate who has helped hundreds of other survivors, I understand the complex dynamics that many survivors face.
If you are a survivor of child sexual abuse on Guam, here are some important factors to remember: * You are not hurting the church, your family, or your community by coming forward. If anyone tries to tell you that coming forward is wrong or shameful, walk away. Brave survivors like Roy Quintanilla, Walter Denton, and Roland Sondia blazed a trail for you. Some civil window sex abuse cases have been completed in less than two years. Organizations fight long and hard to keep their secrets hidden.
I was 55-years-old, and yet my Christian upbringing still had a stranglehold on my sexuality.
By coming forward, you are protecting the child who was hurt so many years ago. But when it comes to the legal system, crime victims have privacy rights. Understand that you need to be patient and that things won’t happen overnight.
If you choose to file a lawsuit, you may do so as a John or Jane Doe so that the public, your employer, or your school never needs to know. You do not have to go through the decision-making or legal process alone.
For the last twenty or so years, over half the couples I see contain the "nice guy" with his frustrated wife.
Talk to a therapist, supportive family and friends, and support groups like Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, or SNAP.
'Do you think God is punishing me for having sex with a man 20 years younger than me?